It’s not easy to know what your loved one needs when in hospice care. However, many people in hospice need and want company from their family and loved ones because they find a familiar presence reassuring. These tips can help you prepare for your visit.
Be Respectful. There may be days when your loved one doesn’t want a lot of company. Always make sure that your visit is welcomed out of respect for your family member in hospice. Showing up unannounced isn’t always helpful if your loved one needs some space.
Ask Loved Ones What They Need. It’s a good idea to ask your loved one what they need from your visit. Don’t avoid certain topics unless your loved one specifically says they don’t want to talk about something. Sometimes, people in hospice care just want your company and don’t feel up to talking, so be mindful of your family member’s needs.
Aim to Soothe and Encourage. Your loved one might just want to know they aren’t alone. Whether you play soft music in the background or just sit in silence, your presence should be soothing and calming to your family member.
Provide Physical Touch. Your loved one might want to hold your hand or have you physically close to their bedside. Remember the power of touch and how healing it can be, but be mindful that your family member might be in pain and may not want to be touched.
Providing support to a loved one on hospice care can be challenging, but it is also a meaningful opportunity to offer comfort and companionship during a difficult time. By following these tips, you can better prepare for your visits and ensure that your presence is truly beneficial to your loved one in hospice.